Wednesday, December 28, 2011

Pardon the Interruption

I've been MIA but I assure you it's not been without good reason.  First, I've been very much in thought about where I want to take my blog from here and into next year, went through a bout of food poisoning, attended a few Christmas parties and then wrestled with a little writer's block.

I've been bursting at the seams with things that I want to share but I've been relunctant because I'm very clandestine about aspects of my life.

Maybe it's a scorpio thing to be super secretive as I love a good secret but I just believe in privacy.  And not to hide or conceal anything but simply for the purposes of protecting people, thoughts, ideas & goals that are special me. I love to share but I do so with caution & meticulous selectivity and I believe that timing is everything.

I've been this way forever and I can't help myself.  This blog started out as just a little project--(focused on girlie/woman things as I'm surrounded by men in the house)--and has since become an extension of me. I'm saying this to say that what you get on my blog is what you'll get in real life.  And that's because this blog is not some thing that I like to do to build fantasies about my life like it's super grand or anything--not that I've portrayed that in the least but I'm just saying in case anyone gets the wrong idea in the future. 

Though I'm a lil moody, I'm always the same and I abhor pretension & negativity on and offline.  I'm introverted but I'm not shy and I'm passionate so I tend to raise my voice about certain topics. That's why you may see many (!) in my posts because I'm so excited. Lol! Pretty much though, what you read is what you get.

Over the past weeks, I've been feeling happy, excited, intimidated, discouraged, encouraged, empowered and inspired.

I wish I could tell you all the things but I assure you in due time, lovies! I promise I'll tell! One good thing I'll share right away: Chief and I decided not to wait until November to marry.  We still plan to have a ceremony/reception in November but we're marrying in March instead.  So with that said, I'll be Mrs. Chief sooner than later! *cheer*

On another note:  I've made some wonderful friends through my blog and my YT channel and hope to connect with many more of you especially those than have inspired me to do better and be better.  Thanks so much for being the wonderful people you are. 

I hope you all had a great and wonderful Christmas or whatever you may celebrate this time of year (Kwanzaa, Hanukkah, etc.) and that you continue to enjoy this time for family and giving! Love you all and talk/write to you soon! ;-)

p.s. Moe I have not forgotten about you, I'm working on those "tomboy to prettygirl/pants to skirts & dresses" posts as we speak! ;-)


  1. Ohhhh, I love a good secret!!! :)
    Can't wait and Happy Holidays to you and the fam lady!!

  2. Awe, sorry to hear about the food poisoning! I know that had to have SUCKED! At any rate, it is completely understandable about"privacy" as to once posted it becomes public to the world to see. But, allow your blog to elevate the way you feel fit and as always your blog buddies wil remain in the loop and RESPECT your decision which ever direction you decide that your blog should take.

    Wishing you a Peaceful & Prosperous New Years!!!!


  3. Hey, I was wondering how you were. I'm glad that you are ok after the food poisoning episode. Your blog should ALWAYS be what you would have it to be. If you readers care about you they should respect your privacy. If you need any honeymoon help, give me a shout as I am a travel agent:)

    Love & Light into the New Year!

  4. Thanks ladies!

    @Dionne the food poisoning was UGH! You know how it Thanks i]I really appreciate that and I'll keep you in mind come travel time :-)

    @Lynn yes, girl once you put it out there it's out there for the literally the WORLD to see it's kinda scary but exciting but...LOL Thanks so much for your kind words!

    @Kiki, I cant wait to share!

  5. Happy new year! Food poisoning is awful I really do feel for u but glad u better now!

    Wonderful blog u have here,am now following

  6. Hi Sharon! Thanks so much! Welcome to the party! ;-)

  7. Im a scorpio too so I get exactly what youre saying lol I love your blog and am so happy I stumbled across it!

    Editor & Chic

  8. I don't know how I missed this post! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!! So happy for you! I wish you all the happiness in the world! That ring is beautiful! Totally love the casual pic showing it off. I would totally do something like that LOL!

  9. @Tima..yes girl gotta keep it low key! :-) a lil mystery is intriguing and sexy if you ask me! :-)

    GP---thanks girl! LOL! yeah I realized I hadn't shown yall the ring since I made my post in July about our engagement. whoopsie! Chief picked that baby out all by himself too and it's actually a better ring than I had imagined for myself. LOL!


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